I can’t stress this enough. You can have all the money in the world and not have style. You can pay for a stylist and still look a fool because you don’t know who you are.
The mask of life will continue to be worn until you take the time to decide what it is you want and how you desire to look. You are important.
When you look in the mirror, you should see the reflection of you, and if you see the stains of your troubles, thoughts others have formed of you, society’s view, then,
TAKE IT OFF! That garment doesn’t fit you anymore. You have to rise higher. People can make all the money in the world, attend events, laugh in photos, but if they don’t know who they are, then, it is a facade. Many tricks of the trade is to sell you an ideology, a fantasy. If you can happily participate w/o being consumed to change, then, you are winning.
If you are complaining about society desiring you to look a certain way, you are a part of the problem. The fashion industry isn’t going anywhere. You have to learn to embrace it or get in line to change it, either way, you are still asking someone to believe in your point of view. I am asking you to believe in yourself.
Which garment are you intrigued to wear? I hope it begins w/ your first name.